“Let there be Light.”
I have chosen the Latin phrase, “Fiat Lux,” as the motto for this blog site. It means, “Let there be Light.” It comes from the Book of Genesis, chapter one, verse 3. Interestingly, it is the first spoken words recorded in the Bible, the first words God spoke. This, in my opinion, speaks volumes.
There are countless hidden meanings behind and within “Let there be Light.” The words can be taken literally or metaphorically. If the latter, all kinds of deep, profound meanings can be extracted from this wonderful phrase.
In Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), “Let there be Light” is the rallying cry to encourage those harmed by this deadly pathogen to explore and investigate what happened, and is happening, to them because of their minds being ensnared by this evil.
PAS thrives in darkness; in fact, for the alienating parent to succeed in continuing their goal of separating the child(ren) from the targeted parent, her “war strategy” necessitates remaining shrouded in darkness. The “element of surprise” is critical to successfully continuing this covert war against the other parent.
I have mentioned child psychologist Dr. Childress in my previous posts on “Divorce and PAS.” He is one of the foremost experts on this subtle but devastating form of child abuse. Just today, I came across one of his videos:
(I found that the first approximate ten minutes of this video were the most helpful.)
We have all experienced what happens when we are in a dark room and suddenly a bright light is turned on, or a flashlight is shined directly into our eyes: it hurts. The effect of the light automatically causes us to shut or eyes and/or grope for the light switch to shut off the light. This video has the same effect: it will “hurt the eyes” of those children who have been traumatized by PAS because it reveals to them the truth, the light, of why they hate one of their parents and why they want nothing to do with him/her.
When a child traumatized by PAS begins to realize that the parent (usually the mother) they adore and trust, the one whom they have clung to throughout the divorce process and the post divorce process, the one whom they have defended to the most unusual extremes, is not the parent you thought they were, they react exactly like having a flashlight shined directly into their eyes. They cannot believe it, they refuse to believe it.
Hopefully, as time and rational thinking begin their wonderful work in that child’s mind, and they move into an environment more conducive to receiving light and truth, a transformation can take place. But it won’t be easy.
My hope is you “look directly into the light” of this video so you can learn the truth of what happened to your destroyed family. Wear sunglasses if you must, but by all means don’t run from the truth it presents.